Dating a hot guy
Any woman I’ve ever really cared for (and showed priority towards) didn’t settle for behavior that wasn’t what she wanted.She didn’t put up with behavior that didn’t work for her – namely, if I left her hanging, I could be sure she’d make other plans.
but I’m here to tell you that being a challenge Nobody wants to put up with a person who’s argumentative, unpleasant or adversarial for no reason.
On the other hand, nobody is going to admire, respect or prioritize a doormat (who will put up with anything because they’re afraid of losing the other person and desperate for their attention, love, and validation).
All that this does is show him that he can treat you like an option while he makes other things a priority. This scenario tends to lead to a relationship downward spiral since the less he puts in effort, the more upset the woman tends to get…
and as the woman gets more upset, she tends to act more desperate, more paranoid and more guarded.
Now, I know there’s a lot of talk out there about being a challenge…
and that being a challenge is somehow inherently attractive to guys…
The more of an effort he puts into seeing you or doing things for you, the more invested in you he’ll become.
This is why being accommodating to bad behavior is actually harmful to creating a bond with the guy in the beginning.
I think all guys would generally agree: we tend to be single-minded in what we’re doing and focus on meeting one objective at a time. 5) If I’m with another girl (note: If I’m in a relationship it’s monogamous, I never cheat, but if not dating around is fair game.) In your situation, it sounds like this guy will try to make plans and then when it gets complicated, or it seems like it isn’t going to happen, he directs his attention elsewhere and doesn’t feel the need to text further (again it comes down to the concept of a man’s tendency to single-mindedly fixate on fulfilling an objective or reaching a goal).Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating