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They got quite angry (of course this is second-hand information, I never experienced it myself).Some men actually like the chasing part, in our part of the world it is that which is called seduction.

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What comes next is the infamous party-trilogy: after-party, sex and hungover (and sometimes a bonus like vomit and morning-after pill).

Most of the time it ends there, after awkward morning-after-moments: who is this person? Is this a real moose-head hanging on the wall staring at me?

Mind you, a few French men I met were offered sudden one night stands by Danish or Norwegian women in bars or parties refused.

Apparently Scandinavian women are not used at all to be told by men “no thank you I am not interested in having sex with strangers whom I’ve had no conversation with beforehand”.

In Copenhagen, where every Friday and Saturday evening see some kind of meat market going on in town, people look at each other for minutes and hours accross the room (party, bar) until one of them comes up to the other and says “my place or your place? Or women just come up to a guy in a cafe, handing their number and saying “I like you, call me”.

Although I see the benefits of women being like that, it is so foreign that I can only sweep and cry for all the Latin girls who never dare to do such things.

As men are not very brave and need a lot of moral support and encouragement to talk to women, I have observed that there is an inversion of roles in what we, Southerners, see as the usual suspects: man chasing woman, woman playing hard to get, man trying to convince woman anyway by telling her that her eyes reflect all the stars of this universe, that she is beautiful, that no, she doesn’t look fat in that dress. They get active and invite men to dance and flirt openly whereas Southern women are taught to do these things subtly and discretely.

You know, with a little style and dignity, not drunk with your fake tan getting off your face like I often saw in the UK.

In more machist societies like France or Italy, such open flirting from a woman will be seen as an invitation for all the men in the neighboorhood.

Some men (not all of course) already flirt heavily when uninvitied, so imagine if you actively seek attention.

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