Dating someone who has cheated before

I feel bad about it every time I think about and I feel even worse every time the girl I’m dating brings up the fact of how she can trust me and how she loves how honest I am with her.So my question to you is, when would be the appropriate time for me to tell her about this, and if there is not an appropriate time, than what should do I do so this doesn’t eat me up alive every time I think about?

You care about her and see a potential future with her.

You feel bad that you were with someone in the time that you knew her. The only difference between you and me is that I don’t think you’ve done anything wrong.

In the study, researchers looked at data from a national survey of 1,300 young adults aged 18 to 35, where participants answered questions about their romantic relationships over a span of five years.

The survey found that 44 percent of participants cheated on their partner at least once in the five years, and when asked if their partner had also cheated, 30 percent said they knew for sure that they’d been cheated on, whereas 18 percent suspected it, but weren’t entirely sure.

We actually met through a dating site and we were talking a few weeks before our first date.

The problem I am dealing with is that a couple days after our first date, I actually had a one-night stand after a long night at the bar.(I feel this is one of those things where telling her would be an easy way for me to feel better, but would end up doing more harm than good in the end.) –Jason Jason, Your radar is right on the money.You’re considered honest and trustworthy by your girlfriend.Your problem is not a wrong doing on your part, but mistaken feelings of guilt that you need to think through and drop. When you have dated this woman long enough to make it fair for her to ask about your past relationship, tell her about your past relationships.Unless she tells you about every single one night stand she had, don’t tell her about your one night stand.Would you have the capacity to forgive me for a one-time indiscretion?

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