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" From internet cafes all over west African countries like Nigeria, Ghana, Ivory Coast, Senegal etc scammers are zeroing in on their prey - singles looking for love online. The Nigerians call them 'maghas' which is slang for gullible white people.The scammers spend their day trolling the dating sites and chat rooms for contact emails, and then send off thousands of fraudulent letters and emails awaiting the victim's replies.

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Part of it was bureaucracy and dealing with deferred maintenance, but part of it was having been through such a traumatic loss.

I severely underestimated the toll of having been George’s caregiver.

I needed to spend what energies I did have taking care of myself.

Having only the best intentions, George’s parents took me on a three week cruise of the Baltics four months after he died.

Far better to spend your time with friends who will buoy you up as you figure out who you are in this new world.

The first year and a half, even two years, after my loss I was often exhausted.I started “beta-dating” a few months after my loss, thinking I’d start practicing.But I was still too wounded and vulnerable, making me needy.I lacked the energy to enjoy trying new experiences.Try some long days out with friends before attempting any lengthy or faraway dates.I sleepwalked through much of it, too tired to enjoy the fast-paced sightseeing and being out of my comfort zone.

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